Confrontational or Permission Evangelism
Two Types of Evangelism
There are basically two ways to share the Gospel of Christ with a person, and both are found in the Bible. In the first kind, Confrontational Evangelism, two people tend to argue or have a âwar with words.â Throughout the Bible, there are situations in which people were confronted with the Gospel. Jesus, John the Baptist, Peter, and Paul confronted the religious, the unbeliever, and the antagonistic people of their day. This type of evangelism feels more like a dispute or altercation.
The other type, Permission Evangelism, involves developing a relationship with a person to gain his or her permission before sharing the gospel. Through one-on-one ministry, group meetings, and other events, Jesus and his disciples shared the Gospel in a way that captured the hearts and minds of the people. As miracles and healings took place, people opened up to the message of the Gospel and often begged to hear more. The results are likely to be more positive than Confrontational Evangelism because you first gain the other personâs permission/ approval/ consent to share. And that permission is gained through dynamic spiritual relationships.
Evangelism is Relational
It is vital to develop a friendship â in fact, a dynamic spiritual relationship with someone before sharing the Gospel. You first need to gain a personâs trust. You may not always have the time or opportunity to develop a close relationship, but you can build rapport in a short time.
Acts 16:14-15 gives one of many scriptural examples of relational evangelism:
14One of those listening was a woman named Lydia, a dealer in purple cloth from the city of Thyatira, who was a worshiper of God. The Lord opened her heart to respond to Paul’s message. 15When she and the members of her household were baptized, she invited us to her home. “If you consider me a believer in the Lord,” she said, “come and stay at my house.” And she persuaded us.
WHAT KIND OF EVANGELISM DO YOU EMPLOY?